Why is it so difficult to make a difference? Why can't I find a party? - more and more singles are asking the question, to no avail.
Matchmaking is a recurring theme in many magazines, but somehow we can't get ahead despite all the dating tips. Why is it so hard to find a partner? It would be easy to think that many people don't find a partner because they haven't met the Right One. There is such a thing, but I often find that realistic self-awareness and targeting of a potential partner is missing. If we get to know ourselves, we will know what kind of partner would suit us and we will be able to target better. However, achieving realistic self-awareness is a long and winding road: it is made much more difficult by feedback from biased family members, friends, and a lack of honest feedback from failed introductions. It is important to have an honest outside observer to provide feedback from which to build. This can be a caring and courageous friend, but if there is no one, it is worth seeking help from a professional or dating coach.
Even a single consultation helps
One of my most popular consultations is the randiguru service, which is dating advice. Those who have used it have been able to manage on their own after just one session. Instead of general dating tips and useless clichés, I offer personalised advice: I analyse the personality of the person I meet, compare their traits with the potential candidates they are looking for, find out about their dating methods, listen to their dating reports and find the flaws. I always find mistakes, errors or misaligned objectives, which I correct to set my client on the right track to success. One session may be enough for advice on online dating: I can help you to draft your letters and deal with rejections and indifference. I give feedback on my client's strengths, so that he knows what traits to build on when meeting. I also take into account weaknesses and how these may be affecting the way you get to know your client. Knowing the weaknesses and shortcomings is particularly important, because it is with these in mind that you can choose a partner who can tolerate them in the long term, and even like them. There is no weakness that someone cannot accept.
Of course, it is also possible to have a longer series of consultations, if necessary, I will not let go of my client's hand until he or she can manage on their own. If the difficulty in getting to know your client is due to a previous sexual failure or trauma, or a lingering sense of fear, you can count on my help until the problem is resolved.
Confidence in bed
One of the most common problems is sexual insecurity: someone can be confident in their career, have a good network of family, friends and acquaintances, and be successful in other areas of life, but still struggle with low sexual confidence. Low sexual self-confidence is something I see very often, and common manifestations of it include: feeling inhibited, having difficulty relaxing, only being able to relax with alcohol or other mind-altering drugs, feeling clumsy, not being able to satisfy a partner, etc. The good news is that increasing sexual confidence does not necessarily require an increase in general self-confidence! So a shy person can be extremely confident in bed! Sexual confidence can be gained faster than general confidence.
Other typical problems that make it difficult to get to know each other:
- disconnection from parents, comparing potential partner to parent ("my mother cooks better")
- excessive attachment to people: typically an ex or a friend
- porn addiction
- lack of space
- not accepting your own body, shyness
- inhibition
- belief system restrictions, guilt
- premature ejaculation
- late ejaculation, male orgasm failure
- size complexity
- elimination of body fluids
- lack of libido ("what if I have to have sex when I don't want to?")
and much more. These can be effectively addressed and solved. With expert help, loving and understanding support, all of these can be remedied!
Stop suffering alone when there is a way out! Ask me for a consultation so you can have a happier, more fulfilling life as soon as possible.
