Are you afraid of women too? Disillusioned with women?Don't trust women? Or do you just not get along with any women? Or maybe you don't even want a living woman? Whichever is true for you, you'd probably rather jerk off at home. You get used to a script and it becomes so fixed that Marok Marcsa becomes your eternal love.
You may still be afraid of women or have a low opinion of them. You think you'll never find someone who will appreciate you and stay loyal to you, but you're bound to meet one someday. And once you do meet a woman who respects you, or someone who satisfies your desires and she's the one you can't get it up with, you'll miss the chance forever. The only chance. Because finding the right partner is extremely difficult, takes a lot of time and even more energy. But if you're there, you've finally come, shouldn't you get it up?
Don't be a jerk when you're chatting
Maybe it doesn't work out for you because you don't want to pick up a girl in a cheeky, rude way. You're giving me respect? You're doing the right thing. Don't start with, "We're fucking"? You think you're missing out on opportunities? Don't feel sorry. You could take someone home every weekend, you think. But how good is sex with a woman who's not giving? There's a big difference between sex and sex. Women's attitudes are completely different in bed if you're good to them and if you're rude, pretentious, teasing.
Parents and friends will not always be there for you
Maybe you don't need a constant companion because you still have a secure parental background and you're full of friends, or at least online acquaintances. You're not lonely now, partying with your single mates. But as you get older, friendships and party partners fade, parents die. Your mates move abroad or, back home, the career or family they start in the meantime becomes more important. This happens to a lot of your male companions, men who don't like women. They'll have less and less time for you and you'll realise you're on your own. Suddenly you want a partner, but by then decades have passed and you no longer have a hard-on for women. Only your own hands.
Trustworthy women like the good guys
Martina Somorjai sexologist
The woman comes suddenly!
The woman comes into your life without you expecting her. Suddenly, from one moment to the next, a bond can form. One line follows the next and you find yourself waiting for her lines, becoming attached against your will. You never know when and where someone will come into your life. It might not be online, it might be at a party, in the liberating intoxication of alcohol. And then when it's time for a bed scene, you're down. Or you don't get hot the first time, but later, when you've formed a deeper bond. Because that's when you find out that every other time, it's just a fake.
Erectile Dysfunction - Love Grief
Now you might say you're not going to fall in love anyway. You are, but people start to bond very quickly, even within a chat, even within a dating app. When you finally find a normal woman, you don't want to lose her. Except: Because you've lived without a woman for so long, you haven't been in love for so long, you can't handle emotions, love. You can't deal with the difficult feeling that comes with a girl leaving you. You sink into yourself, your world collapses and you die of love disappointment. The vast majority of boys die of their first love, which usually happens when they're teenagers. If you're 30 years old now, but you haven't had a crush in 10 years, I guarantee you'll die the same way - because you don't have a coping mechanism.
So in addition to your original problem, which is erectile dysfunctio was, you get another one: love sorrow. If you are seeing a sex therapist at this time, please see me, I can't help you until then potency confusionuntil we have worked through the heartache. And it's still better to have a sexologist help you with that than to drown your sorrows in alcohol - as erectile dysfunction, lack of desire, impotence men unable to face up to it did and still do. In my book, I have described four, or 4 deaths, because becoming an alcoholic can lead to death at a young age.
Potential disorder - love sorrow - death
We started from a simple problem, the partial impotence, and we have come to the point of death. This career path is not necessary if you intervene early enough. How much easier it would be if you started sex therapy now, self-care for your dick. That way you can plan wisely for the future. The difference between a successful person and a loser is that a successful person thinks about the future and plans: he sees where his current situation will take him in the future, so he intervenes now and sets goals. He anticipates future problems.
You can have this girl who suits you. Believe me, there are still normal women out there, you just might not have been looking in the right place, or more likely, you were not ready to receive them and God/Fate/Supreme Directive didn't send them. They may come into your life prematurely, and then you will be forced to finally deal with your erectile dysfunction. And that's when you find out that all the effective sex therapists are booked. By the time you get to one, you'll be beating the trail of the woman you said Thursday to with a stick.
Martina Somorjai Potential Expert Sexologist, Randiguru
