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erectile dysfunctio, premature ejaculation, porn addiction témában. How is it possible to
find the roots in just one sexology consultation?
The secret method of sexologist Martina Somorjai.
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Following a commenter, I decided to reveal the tricks of the trade. Here:
Sex Therapy Masterstrokes
1. Fortitude: ask a lot of questions
2. You shouldn't ask anything that's off-topic (a lot of people get it wrong here)
3. Constantly encourage the client to be honest. In the video I do this min. 3 methods.
4. When you ask a question, answer it if it is relevant. But if not, then by all means - recognise immediately which category the current question falls into
5. To pick up the thread again after a reply, even if you would have been distracted for the fifth time
6. Admit when I guessed wrong
7. If I make a mistake, apologise immediately and explain
8. At the same time, to lead with a strong hand and make strong statements all the time
9. Confront the client with his own mistakes, point out his responsibility in the past. Combine this with guidance for the future - in a firm but preferably non-offensive way
10. Recognising and adapting to the client's style and language as much as possible
11. At the same time, to show something different, something new, so that you also learn general wisdom, not just
12. Get personalised sex therapy
13. Creating a cheerful, relaxed and relaxed atmosphere
14. But change for the serious parts to feel the weight
15. It is important to be connected, e.g. to know the specificities of the era presented by the client. If I don't know what characterizes the social situation of 10-20-30-40 years ago, the client will not feel that I understand him.
16. At the same time, don't get too attached - it makes sense that a sex therapist shouldn't talk about themselves
17. Expecting precise answers, asking questions because the client will say the same thing differently, or because you need to narrow down the scope. If necessary, explain why I do so.
18. At the same time, it is not good to explain too much, because it takes the focus of the sexological consultation away from the solution
19. Give concrete tips, not just passively, silently listening to clients
20. Respond, make the consultation interactive. Reflect back what is said, using listening techniques
21. to respect the client's disagreement, to accept his/her corrections, because he/she lives in his/her own body, he/she knows better than a sex therapist
22. at the same time to recognise what he does not know better and to accept it, all with love.
As you can see, the sexologist is constantly on thin ice!
I suddenly thought of these 22 methodological recommendations, and these are just the framework.
I have not written a word about the content itself. How I got to the root cause.
This video/audio is for them,
- who want to get their sex life in order
- want to learn sex therapy tricks as a therapist
- wondering what it's like to be a sexologist who likes to be informed
- they love new things, videos with a special theme
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