There are many reasons why someone may not be wanted by their partner. Not everyone can afford to indulge in physical pleasure. The question is, what lies behind such abstinence?
If your partner has hit similar walls before - i.e. you're not the first person he's been unable to get off with in bed - he should clarify what's affecting him in his mind. It is always worth seeking the help of a sexologist. I can help not only with exploration and analysis, but also with practical solutions.
