Martina Somorjai reviews
Every result is a great pleasure for me. That is why I love this profession.
There are outstanding recoveries: my greatest achievement is the recovery of a man who was unable to enjoy sexuality due to childhood rape, avoided it, uffered from impotence and premature ejaculation, PTSD. (2016 opinion, middle of page)
My medically detectable result is linked to a couple who were initially addicted to male pornography of a male pornography addict. By the end of sex therapy, however, not only was the man cured, but the woman's cytology results were negative, so she no longer has to fear the dreaded cervical cancer. (bottom)
Update: for more opinions, please visit the Forum section, where my clients, readers, PoP Potency Program and VIP Club members who are not well treated elsewhere, write their opinions.
42 years old, 6 years in a sexless marriage, single man
After 3/4 years I got sex again from my wife, with whom I was already divorced. Thank you for your help.
Niki, 32 years old woman, came to me because of vaginismus
"Martina is more than a sexologist. She is a dedicated, devoted and client-centred counsellor who is kind, open and accepting, and can be approached with confidence with any kind of problem. During our relaxed, good-humoured consultations, I learned a lot about myself from the first sessions and we are now approaching solutions in a variety of ways and in exciting ways.:)"
A 42-year-old woman and her partner presented with a complete sexual estrangement, mainly due to psychological reasons. When we met, they were considering a break-up. After 3 weeks of counselling they were able to smile again.
There are "happy" couples even with complete sexual estrangement. Today, sexless relationships are increasingly common. There is no problem as long as it is a mutual desire and there are no plans to have children. As soon as one of the partners starts to miss the sex, the real warmth, the real devotion in the relationship, or experiences that artificial insemination is not successful, serious consideration should be given to consultation. Experienced outside observers and professionals can get to the root of the problem in record time, as you can see from the thank you note below.
"How do you do it? He found the root of our 12-year relationship problem in 1 hour! We couldn't figure it out on our own. I don't know where Zsolt found you, but you are a professional."
One possible cause of alienation
Máté, a 35-year-old man, who before the consultation did not understand why his wife left him after 11 years, so he could not come to terms with the divorce before the consultation started.
Sometimes the breakup or divorce processing does not go alone. If you don't understand why your wife/husband is acting strangely or why he/she has left you, contact me! There is effective help, as the reference below shows:
"I came to him to avoid making the mistakes I made in my previous marriage in a new relationship and to get rid of one of my fetishes, which had become a burden.
Due to time constraints, I opted for a consultation via Skype and so far I feel that it is working flawlessly. We get in touch at the agreed time and the journey begins.
In my case, I feel that she functions more as a general spiritual-mental sexology specialist (for the time being at least) rather than a sexological specialist, which is obviously because that's what I need right now. Sometimes asking seriously honest questions helps me to get to know myself better, to reveal my weaknesses and then to formulate how I can change them. Each session makes me think and helps me to look at things I have been obsessed with believing about myself from a different perspective. When I need it, he gives me heart-warming praise, but other times he just takes me out of my comfort zone and knocks me off my high horse. Although it's still early days in the consultations, I already feel that one of the most important things I will take away with me is the ability to see things from multiple perspectives, and thus to understand myself and others better."
I helped a 28-year-old man, a sexual therapist, out of total impotence, which was associated with porn addiction and fetishism. When we met, he was only interested in BDSM, but showed indifference to traditional, so-called vanilla sex.
Complete impotence at 28? It does happen, especially if it is combined with porn addiction or any other negative way of thinking. Don't despair: there is a way out! My reference below proves it:
"I see you have become a successful sexologist. I am glad. If anyone, you'll certainly be able to help people with messed-up brains like me."
A 36-year-old man with no problems who wanted to raise his sexual culture to a higher level. The West and traditional European methods had nothing new to offer him, so I taught him the Eastern method.
Sometimes, someone may say they are fine and have a sexual culture, but go to a sexologist. He or she seems to have self-confidence, a solid foundation, a balanced and harmonious lifestyle. They are the ones who want to improve themselves, their sexual culture, their sexual intelligence. All my consultations increase the SEXQ, but some of them are without problem-solving, i.e. they are specifically technical. Here is a reference from the wisdom of the East:
„Bár régen jártam nálad, és csak most tudtam alkalmazni egy nővel a tanultakat, mégis meglepően sokáig bírtam az aktust. Köszönettel tartozom érte, nem volt önbizalmam a dugáshoz azelőtt.”
A 38 year old porn addict with premature ejaculation who stopped watching sex films after 3 consultations, which he had been doing continuously at work.
Men addicted to pornography often experience premature ejaculation or prolonged, late ejaculation. A dangerous level of porn addiction is when someone is already watching sex films at work. It is important to seek help from a professional before it is too late. It may be hard to believe that this can be treated effectively, but it is. Here is a surprisingly quick result:
I've gone to the other extreme since our last meeting. I absolutely do not watch porn anymore!
30-year-old man who contacted me with erectile dysfunction
"I don't want to shout it out but...I fucked Sylvie the other night and I haven't been this hard in a long time. :-P"
The easiest time to help is when impotence is only partial
The sooner you come to see me, the easier it is to help with erectile dysfunction
A 44-year-old married man who, after recovering from an early ejaculation, is now ready to start the baby project.
31 year old groom who could only live his sexuality in a certain paraphilia - BDSM as a submissive party
Those who can only live out their sexuality in some kind of paraphilia, e.g. BDSM, are severely limiting themselves. If they are submissive as men, they are usually ashamed of themselves.
"It was really - really good to talk about all this, I'm much more liberated since then, and I've taken on board a lot of what you said. You're awesome!"
30-year-old man with erectile dysfunction
I was contacted with a stiffness disorder by a man who reported it back:
"Since talking to you, I have become much more confident. My environment has noticed the change."
A 34-year-old man who contacted me about his sex life, which was full of quirks due to self-doubt.
Self-doubt can make life miserable for many people, leading to a sex life full of setbacks.
"Turning to you was one of the best decisions of my life! It's like you're my superego."
A 42-year-old woman from my circle of friends noticed all sorts of strange abnormalities on her genitals that doctors could not confirm. Her problem was guilt from Christianity, so she punished herself unconsciously for having sex before marriage
It can happen that someone feels so guilty about their premarital sex life that they notice all sorts of strange abnormalities in their genitals. The restrictions of a religious upbringing, for all the positive aspects of a life of faith, can cause serious problems in sex life. The guilt that comes from Christianity can lead to self-punishment, which in the best case is subconscious. At its worst, guilt can lead to conscious self-mutilation.
My friend reported this back after months of constant worry:"I was really worried about my pussy, but then I'm glad I thought wrong."
44-year-old Italian man who had premature ejaculation and could have intercourse for 3 hours after a single consultation
Sometimes, there is no psychological problem behind premature ejaculation or ejaculation too quickly. In such cases, it is enough to explain the correct techniques, which my Italian client, who wrote the following positive feedback, put into practice immediately after leaving. He wrote:
"Ciao, Ho durato 3 ore...É possibile durare per una notte intera...?" Translation: 'I lasted 3 hours. Is it possible to have intercourse all night?"
I also teach techniques for premature ejaculation, not strong enough orgasms
A 52-year-old man, who was oppressed by his wife because of his small penis, was regularly humiliated by her.
His wife regularly humiliated my client because of his small penis. After the consultations, she wrote me this:
„I talked to my oppressing wife and finally our relationship got better.”
Magyarul: „Beszéltem elnyomó nejemmel, és végre jobbra fordult a kapcsolatunk.”
A 42-year-old man who couldn't cope with the fact that his partner had left him after 7 years, and he couldn't keep in touch with his foster son.
If you've been dumped by your partner or broken up with a partner you thought you were safe with, you may not be able to experience sexual pleasure with your next partner:
„Thank you very much for the Session yesterday. You really calmed me down and showed me a whole New perspective of my situation. I feel much better now that I apologized and for letting her know why I overreacted. Thank you very much for your advice!”
Magyarul: ” Nagyon köszönöm a tegnapi konzultációt. Igazán lenyugtatott és teljesen új megvilágításból mutatta meg a helyzetem. Most sokkal jobban érzem magam, annyira, hogy bocsánatot is kértem az exemtől, amiért túlreagáltam a dolgokat. Köszönöm Önnek a tanácsait.”Many people have sexual problems because they cannot cope with divorce or break-up
A 30-year-old woman with chronic urethral pain that she has been seeing doctors for years.
Women's diseases include chronic urethral pain, for which I received the following feedback:
"I have great news! 🙂 When I was at your place, my pain was significantly reduced the next day. I think we're on a very good track, just in those few days my life has become much better and I have you to thank for that!"
A 39-year-old man contacted me with premature ejaculation and a relationship crisis. I ended up using counselling for remission.
"I came to him in the most difficult situation of my life (a relationship crisis with premature ejaculation) and he helped me not only to solve my sexual problem, but also to work through the end of a great love affair. He realised that not only did I need exercises, but that my mental balance was also upset. She pointed out things that I knew somewhere but didn't want to articulate even to myself. But I could not avoid them. Thank you for your help, the consultation in an empathic and humorous atmosphere solved my problem, I can only recommend it to everyone."
Sometimes premature ejaculation is due to failure to release
A 40-year-old man who was unable to enjoy sexuality due to childhood rape, avoided it, suffered from impotence, premature ejaculation, PTSD syndrome.
Gyermekkori nemi erőszak miatt szenvedő kliensem visszajelzésének fordítása: “Chris vagyok, 40 éves férfi. Azért fordultam Martinához, mert szexuálisan bántalmaztak mintegy 30 évvel ezelőtt. Minden konzultáció után éreztem egy kis előrelépést. Sokkal gyorsabban távoztak a démonok, mint azt gondoltam volna. Most úgy érzem, igazán felszabadultam a rossz emlékek hatása alól, amik nyomasztó súllyal nehezedtek a fejemre és lelkemre. Most már tudok normális életet élni, szabad vagyok- nem hittem volna, hogy ez lehetséges. Martina valóra váltotta, hogy én is normális életet tudjak élni nyugodtan és boldogan. A konzultációk előtti szexuális életem igen korlátozott volt erekciós problémák és korai magömlés miatt, amikhez mindig rossz érzések, rossz emlékek kapcsolódtak- ezek már mind elmúltak. Most tudom élvezni a szexuális életet, természetesnek érzem mindennemű rossz érzés nélkül. A konzultációk előtt nem voltam hajlandó behatolni a hüvelybe, sem kezdeményezni a szexben, de most nyitott vagyok, vállalom a vezető szerepet. Stabil barátnőm van. Biztosan nem lennék vele, ha nem vittem volna végig a konzultációkat. A kapcsolatunk nem tartott volna sokáig. Most már jó ideje együtt vagyunk. Kapcsolatunk egyik alapja, amire épül, a normális szexuális élet.”
„I am Chris, a 40 year old man and I turned to Martina because I was abused about 30 years ago. On each session I could feel a little progress. Much faster than I thought the demons had gone. Now I feel really liberated of the bad memories that put so much weight on my mind and soul. All gone. Now I can live a normal life, much free-I havent thought I could feel again. Martina put it in reality that i can live a normal a normal life , feel free and happy. Before consultations my sexual life was very limited because of erection problems and early ejaculation always connected to bad emotions, bad memories which are all gone now. Now I enjoy sexual life, have fun, feel quite natural without any bad feelings. Martina actually sexually freed me. Before her consultations I did not enjoy penetrating at all or taking a leading role in a sexual encounter, but now I am open to take the leading role. I have a stable girlfriend now. I would not definitely been with her if I had not done the consultations. Our relationship would not have been lasted very long. Now we have been together for a while. The normal sexual life is definitely a basis where our relationship is built on.”
Couple with two children, aged 38/42, who came for couples counselling for sexual arousal due to female libido deficiency
Women's libido deficiency: 'Thank you for your work! My wife and I have had a very bad sex life: we have been struggling for 8 years now, having very bad days! Sex for her is a compulsion and has sometimes gone into the category of disgust! The concept of lovemaking was completely excluded from her life, she was left with 3 minutes of quick sex - and that too out of compulsion to conform. I had a very strong sexual desire towards him, but almost nothing in return- in fact he was terrified when the evening came because he knew he might have to have sex! We tried almost everything, but unfortunately nothing worked, we were left fighting and the thought of divorce kept coming up! I masturbated daily to quench my desire but he was angry about that too. Finally I thought I would seek professional help, so we found this wonderful place!
After a couple of suitable couples consultations our lives changed! My wife has become a sex goddess: hours of lovemaking, long kissing sessions, masturbating in front of each other - vibrating herself and having terribly big and fantastic orgasms together! We never thought it would ever be good, and now she can't wait to make love to me anywhere! She has completely shed her inhibitions ,we have broken the taboos of each other and a wonderful new world of sex has opened up for us!
I can only recommend this to everyone, it was a great help for us ! Come here, you will not be disappointed and you will get a new and fantastic life in return ! There is no shame in it, the solution unfortunately often cannot be found without help and it should be this rather than a lover or a divorce lawyer ! I highly recommend it to everyone !
We too were scared and didn't believe in her, but after one consultation we got a wonderful life back from this terribly discreet, big-hearted and of course 100% knowledgeable lady!"When traditional couple therapy doesn't help, only Sex Education for Couples
55-year-old workaholic man with impotence
"I met a girl, Andrea, who is not my girlfriend in the classic sense of the word, but I have sex with her. It works perfectly. 🙂 I continue to work a lot. Often up until one o'clock at night. I get up at 5am.
I have a very cool, powerful erection in the morning, which I can consciously create. I've even done it at work when I know I don't have to get up from my desk. :-))
So my erection is fine, I enjoy the situation, I have a very strong orgasm."
28-year-old shy, shy, quick-firing man
I was shy, timid, quick-fire:
"I'm doing very well, and the consultation and all the discussions have helped me a lot. I have had an incredible release of inner tensions and fears. My personality has become much more open and positive. I dare to be myself much more. I have much more self-confidence. I believe that so much depends on our mind, our thinking, our beliefs. and they can always be changed for the better. I find that I have improved a lot through the consultation.My girlfriend is working abroad temporarily. She said that she never felt her relationship was strong enough to withstand being away for 3-4 months to six months. But for the first time she felt that way and she went for it. Until he comes home, we're on the phone, messaging each other on messenger, but everything is fine between us, I'm really looking forward to him coming home.
I no longer feel ashamed or remorseful when I see or think of something beautiful, exciting or arousing, because I know that whatever I like or desire with my eyes or thoughts can be incorporated into my imagination, and it is in the right place, and I can put anything there, because it will be useful to me in practice. This is a big step forward in my case, and the key to almost everything. That is perhaps the main result of our consultation, and it is a success in any case.
The consultation also obviously has something to do with Alexandra's courage to "leave me" for a while, because she is no longer worried that our sex life is not good and that it might end our relationship. I'm also sure that when she returns home in December, we will pick up where we left off in the summer, and it will be even better all the time.
Once again, thank you very much for your interest and for all you have done for me so far! I think of you with great gratitude!"
Premature ejaculation due to too strict, inhibited, shy upbringing
50-year-old woman with relationship, sex-related problems
I contacted Martina with a relationship problem, related to sex. During the consultation, we analysed the situation thoroughly and it felt great to be able to talk about sex without any inhibitions! Even though I have never considered myself a prude, with her I realised how many taboos I had about it. During the conversations, these completely disappeared and it was much easier to talk about the problem. We tried many different methods during the consultation, which helped me to become a much more open and liberated woman, both in sex and in life. I learned about some new elements of sex and realised how healthy sexuality can enrich my life. I wish I had come to Martina sooner!
Forum post by 36-38 year old couple cured of porn addiction and cervical cancer tendency
Several women I know suffer from female problems, as do I. 3 years ago my gynaecological results were badfollowed by a "routine" operation, a cervical tap to find out if it was bad or good. It all started from an HPV virus.
The most horrifying thing for me was that this happened despite the fact that I never changed partners (I have two hands too many to count and I'm over 30)
I have had few sexual relations and yet I didn't understand how it could exist that THIS COULD HAPPEN TO ME???? I love sex, I have almost always been in a relationship. There could be many reasons for this: weakened immune system, it depends on the partner, how many relationships they have had, genetic predisposition, etc., etc. .
In my fright, I started to research the psychological background of the illnesses (which I had never dealt with before)
Our mental barriers do have a big percentage effect on our health, but by accepting this opportunity I did not know what to do and especially how to do it differently ? The idea of illness caused a block that made me not see my own situation clearly.
I have found something that I have done a lot for myself: SEXOLOGY CONSULTATION
Meanwhile, my partner and I also had a sexual problem. My partner's sexual desire decreased after 4-5 months of being together, which destroyed me: several months of self-harm, self-blame, self-image deterioration, sadness, not living my sexuality, staying faithful.... I searched for solutions, I offered solutions, but the answer was always that everything was fine, but deep down I felt that this was not true.
Meanwhile, a man very dear to me died of cervical cancer. A mother who could not live up to her femininity. She told me a lot in the last period about not being able to live her femininity, in the last period she tried everything : consultation, alternative methods... it was too late. She said it should have been sooner, after the first chemo. She did it three times...
In the meantime, I found out that my partner is a porn addict, masturbates 4-5 times a day, goes to whores and his every thought is about cheating on me I am still filled with pain and sadness when I think about that time. When I think about how after my accident, instead of being with me, he went to his ex to get revenge on her by sleeping with her and dumping her.And how he went to massages with women while I secretly cried about why he didn't want me.
This was followed by a gynaecological examination, the annual compulsory cancer screening, which showed a threshold that the doctor said would need to be re-examined in six months' time to see what "direction it was going". The doctor did not give me the results...
I was so scared! I was afraid that I would have another "routine" operation and when it would be over...
It was in this state of mind that we found Martina , and I knew that help was needed. At first I thought it was only my boyfriend who needed help with his porn addiction but on the first meeting Martina cleverly realised that I needed help even more: my self-confidence, my belief in my relationship, my femininity were in a very bad state.
An intensive work started, which had a lot of positive results: I found my own responsibility, I accepted the other's addiction without staying in the victim role and I started to really LOVE MYSELF!
AND!
What is the greatest gift for me is that After 5 months of consultations, I plucked up the courage and went to the doctor again for a check-up: NEGATIVE !
To anyone who doubts the success of the consultations, I would just say give yourself a chance to approach the problem from a different angle. Dare to ask for help!
Life will not be smooth after this either, BUT! It doesn't matter how much self-resilience we have when a problem finds us in life. I had all the tools to be a WOMAN but I could not, I see that now and I am learning.
I needed a completely different perspective. Healing our souls also heals our bodies! And my friend's death also teaches us not to procrastinate, when it comes to ourselves, our own health, we can do the most for ourselves.
I've written in bullet points what I've achieved thanks to the sexology consultation with Martina, so if I sometimes get insecure about the past, I can just read them again:
About myself:
1. Awareness:
I've managed to behave more feminine, I dress more feminine, I pay more attention to feminine traits.
I have managed not to be too dominant and I feel that this is very good for our relationship.
I've managed to use some methods from the "pantry" of femininity, which is very good for our relationship.
2.Confidence:
I've noticed that I love myself much more, when I look in the mirror I see more beauty in myself, I start to accept and love my little flaws. I always look for something to praise . If I have a negative thought about a part of my body, I look for a positive one.
3.Praise
I have improved a lot in that when I get praise I thank it, believe it and am happy about it. Before I used to get chills when I got praise
4.I have become much more balanced, I can handle negative situations better.
About my partner:
5.Relationship improvement
It boosted my self-confidence and my importance that my partner came for a consultation ,that he did it for me/for us. Since then my partner doesn't watch porn, doesn't go to whores, doesn't even miss them.
6.It makes me feel good and loving that my partner has become much more confident around me. He became a stronger, more masculine man.
Relationship with a parent:
7.Relationship with my mother
I'm happy that my relationship with my mum has improved and that I can be quiet in certain situations and accept that she is who she is, but still loves me for it. Before the consultation I didn't really feel that my mum loved me.
Thank you for your attention
Giselle
Giselle also wrote the above letter in the "Forum for porn addicts and their relatives", where you can also read about their initial situation in the posts from 5 months earlier.
Erectile dysfunction from porn addiction
34-year-old man with porn addiction, erectile dysfunction, self-doubt due to childbearing difficulties, sexual performance anxiety:
After 9 years of being in a relationship, I realised that I wasn't giving my partner the basic attention, care and help; he couldn't feel like a woman next to me. By focusing only on what was good for me, I did not focus one iota on ensuring that his desires were expressed and fulfilled. I didn't touch, I rejected when I felt I didn't want to do something or make something happen.
Then I was afraid that I was not doing something right, that I was doing him wrong. I was afraid of hurting him, but it was because I was afraid, and I didn't do anything, and I withdrew, that I did the worst in his direction. It was a sick fear and self-doubt that drove my thoughts and actions, instead of myself, instead of acting out my own desires, that I was concerned with his feelings and his person.
During those conversations, I believed and felt all the resignation and rejection I had given her instead of appreciating her wants and needs.
I'm actually lucky that he stuck with me for all this time and didn't stand up for me at the first opportunity when he found that I didn't put him first.
However, for almost a year now intimacy has returned to everyday life; and I myself live my days more assertively and masculinely. Regular time together has also reassured him and strengthened our trust in each other. My stiffness disorder is a thing of the past, I quit porn.
Feedback from a 25-year-old man with severe porn addiction and anxiety
Life has become much easier, I see life more clearly, I am not buried by my emotions.
In the past, I've always taken the familiar route. Now I want a change! I'm not addicted to porn anymore! I am more confident!
It takes some getting used to:D After all, my whole life has changed.
Without outside help, you will not be able to quit! Anyone who can quit without help is not an addict, they just had a bad habit.
It's a very difficult journey and the improvement is not steady, but comes in waves.
Martina is very patient and did not learn about suffering from a textbook..
I can only recommend her!
It's the same one he wrote to me in his earlier letter:
I kiss you. One of my colleagues committed suicide. They talked to him the night before, he seemed fine. It took us an hour or two to wrap our heads around it.Afterwards I thought a lot about you, how good it was to have you. I would like to thank you for everything! For dealing with me and taking me to another reality. For sticking with me, not shaking me off. That's what the Good Lord made you for.
44-year-old man with a severe pornography addiction, masturbation addiction and gambling addiction
I am a porn addict, or at least I "was". I'm a game addict, or at least I "was".
Six to eight hours a day on passions that have taken me away from family, sleep, health
, since I was 14. That's nine years out of forty-four. Before I met Martina
I used to touch myself 10 times a day. I used to play for weeks
without getting up from the computer except to eat. Sometimes I'd spend hours
earching porn sites before I finally found something kinky
and new enough to make my penis erect. My connection
to with the outside world and women was non-existent.I met Martina a year ago. When I was with her, I always got
a zest for life. My life took a complete turn. I managed to leave porn
and games. My sexual desires were back to normal. My relationships with women
were sorted out. I managed to overcome my hopeless
desire for an unattainable woman who only used me. I learned self-respect and
humanity. After a break of almost ten years, I had a serious girlfriend again.
I look at women in a completely different way now, and they look at me in a different way: they
flirt now, even though they didn't notice me before.Martina is, in my opinion, a very attentive, prepared and professional
exologist. I recommend her to anyone who is lost and trying to find their life
and themselves.Now, in detail, what I have achieved in a during a
year of sexology consultations, which I attended every 3 weeks.1. I don't watch porn. I used to watch 6-8
hours a day.2. I play significantly less
online.3. I no longer have erection problems
4. I have a girlfriend. After 8 years of being single.
5. I am more proactive. I take more risks
I dwell less on my failures.6. better at setting boundaries
with people (former oppressors, bullies)7. I read more and more. I am developing
my communication and interpersonal skills. I listen to an audio book
instead of music while running and driving.8. I brought sport back into my life.
When I can, I run at least 2-3 times a week.9. I started to develop my empathy
skills. I can empathise better with other people's situations. (Before
I was willful and insensitive to others.)10. In the meantime, I fell hopelessly in love
with an unattainable woman (of course, she looked like
the actress in the movies). She was playing me the whole time, but I didn't notice. Martina's painfully
sobering feedback allowed me to deconstruct this.11. I left a job
in a toxic environment.12. I can manage my mother's
affairs more efficiently. I can easily sense her manipulations. I fall for them less.13. I also feel the manipulations
of my old-new boss better. I can smooth things over more effectively.14. I also improved my communication skills:
I find it easier to put myself in someone else's perspective.15. I am more determined and focused.
16. I left a job
I hated going to.I stand up for my mother and my child
when I want to assert my interests. (I have been oppressed, dominated
and manipulated in the past.)18. I have cleared my addictions.
At least I'm interested enough in real life that I'm not completely wrapped up in
my addictions.19. today I manage to fall asleep without
watching porn. This used to be unthinkable.20. I am much braver with women.
It's less hassle to talk to them, to talk to them. The real
world has opened up since then and I'm able to make connections. For the first time in my life I asked two girls
for their phone numbers.21. during my porn-addicted period
I only liked women with manga characters: thin waist
, disproportionately oversized breasts, etc. that's the kind of woman I wanted in real life. My expectations
were so high that I only liked two porn movies out of 100.22. masturbated 10-15 times a day. Thanks
to the consultations this has been reduced considerably23. The consultations helped me to understand why
women reject me.24. complain less
25. solve my problems myself
26. experiencing the joy of life more
intensely27. women
flirt with me now, they didn't even notice me before - Martina says it's because my appearance has
changed
35-year-old porn-addicted man who, despite having a satisfying sex life, also visited prostitutes
I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. Unfortunately, it has been overshadowed by porn addiction and its baggage - which in my case involves cheating with prostitutes and lying. This came to light 1.5 years ago, and then my partner took me to Martina for a sexology consultation, which I didn't have the stomach for. At first I absolutely did not take the problem seriously, I felt too comfortable in that situation and could not see the wood for the trees. It was only when I was on the brink and nothing was working that I thought that I was in real trouble and that I was not going to find a way out of this addiction on my own. Fortunately for me, Martina Somorjai is a very kind and accepting sexologist and I was given a second chance. I am now trying to fight back for the second time, this time with a different attitude. Now I have been resisting the temptation of porn for several months. It's a long and slow process of recovery, but funnily enough the results are tangible here too. My relationship has suffered a lot through it all, many times now old grievances come up and will still come up many times. But there is a way out with Martina's help. I'm lucky that my partner has stuck by me and she gives me extra support. Maybe soon we will get to the point of planning a family. So far that has not been possible because of my addiction. I can tell everyone to be careful, because it can happen to anyone that they become an addict, but few people realise it and it can get deep very quickly. Seek real experiences in the real world rather than virtual ones.
A 25-year-old man with a severe porn addiction who has already developed a behavioural disorder
Martina was really helpful when I needed
her. Since I started her classes, I have been able to fix many problems
in my life. Not only my sex life but also my everyday life has
changed almost completely for the better. Anyone who is determined to make a difference
in their life and is enthusiastic about doing the tasks you give them so that you can fight for a better future outside of the classroom
will achieve what they want. She is the 3rd sexology
professional to try to help and the only one who has achieved results. In her classes
he tries to find the best possible way. To make sure she finds it, she is known
to train regularly, ensuring that she has more than one way
to address the problem she is facing.
Feedback from a 24-year-old traumatised woman
Martina Somorjai opinion: Martina Somorjai is a sex therapist who really listens and successfully works with the person in therapy to resolve their difficulties.
BDSM and LGBTQ+ topics were also discussed, she gave me her full attention, and we meditated on how to accept them within myself.
In trauma processing we also put concepts in place, I was able to experience the process of forgiveness without the abuser actually having to be present, as we did this in meditation.
I strongly recommend you to contact Martina Somorjai. 🙂All this is explained in more detail in the forum, this link: https://legyenjobbaszex.hu/topic/gyermekkori-szexualis-abuzus-2/
38-year-old man's feedback on impotence
The POP has helped more than six months of sex therapy than any other sex therapist. What is POP? What is POP? From boy - to Man Masculinity Potenty Program. You can read about it here: Pasiból – Férfit Férfiasság Potencia Program and here: potenciaprogram.legyenjobbaszex.hu/sales
Dear Martina,
Thank you for the 30-day POP program!
It was very nice to wake up in the morning with something to do with myself, all the materials were useful and thought-provoking, even the ones I didn't know what they were/are for in the beginning!
I feel like I've been given a lot of knowledge, a lot of material, a lot of things to learn, but I've been given material that I can come back to at any time, and it's a great feeling!
Parties to start to get closer to my wife, because they are afraid of rejection and that I can't give her everything she needs! I am working on this constantly and POP has been a great help to me.
48-year-old man with severe erectile dysfunction
You gave me tremendous strength this morning, you just said a few things and I already feel like a man and not a piece of shit.I am very grateful for that and that you are and that you help me, unfortunately I can't pay for this gratitude with money, but I thank you every day in my prayers.
**To avoid misunderstandings, of course she paid for sex therapy, but she felt that sexology counselling was worth much more than my hourly rate. ** Martina Somorjai's opinion