The psychological cause of cervical cancer is sexual neglect
Chronicle of a senseless death
I realised two years ago that the psychological cause of cervical cancer is sexless relationship, more specifically the psychological background of the disease sexual neglect available. So for women I noticed this disease in people who lasting relationship but their husband/partner does not approach them on a long-term basis. And if the woman initiates physical contact, the man refuses.
Although I noticed this two years ago while researching a common root problem in some women with cervical cancer, I had not written about it before. I thought I would gain more experience and knowledge before drawing such a far-reaching conclusion based on my non-representative survey. But tonight I had a dream my childhood friend who died of cervical cancer two years ago and resented me. I got a symbolic message from him. I understood that I could not put off writing this any longer, nor could I wait for some scientific research to justify me. And I have not even finished analysing my previous research on pornography addiction, so I am not going to start researching the psychological background of cervical cancer any time soon.
I apologise to him for not writing his story until now. I am happy to talk about sex in general, but not about the sex lives of specific individuals. But in the case of my girlfriend. the sexual problem led to death. I have to admit that writing a case study of her and other women in similar situations could be helpful to others in similar situations, so I'm making up for it. Hopefully in time. At least others will be helped by this story, if Elena hasn't already succeeded! Please, anyone who reads, please share!
I feel remorse that I could not help him. My friend was not my client, she did not come to me for help and she did not go to any other spiritual helpers, she only went to conventional medicine. I hardly spoke to her in her last years, but I knew the situation was unchanged. When the situation arose I gave him advice, as probably others did, but he was unable to change. I gave up unsolicited advice and Elena, according to many, gave up on life. She didn't want to fight, didn't want to stay alive, even though she was seeing a doctor regularly. But gave up mentally. Why, we will soon find out. (The name Elena is made up).
Elena married early thanks to a strict parental background. Although she did not come from a religious family, she had heard at home that virginity had to be preserved until marriage and that she could only give herself to one man. Whatever happens, the you must stand by your husband in eternal fidelity. The marriage vows are indeed for ever and ever, whatever that husband is doing. It was almost predictable with such an upbringing that she would marry and have children at a very young age. And so she did. They were happy at first. I moved to another city, so we saw each other less often. One time she told me that her husband had a mistress who lived not far from them. He continued to sleep with her. She was still healthy at the time. After a few years, she knew the lover. Her husband no longer desired Elena, and called her bad names in the her appearance has changed since giving birth about. Elena took it upon herself, her belief in her femininity, her self-confidence went down. Sex life between them ceased. It is not enough for a girlfriend to say to a humiliated, ruined woman who feels like an anti-woman, "come on, other men will want you", it is better to experience it in practice. So, with great difficulty, I persuaded her to go to a dance event. She came, and soon enough a man asked her, but Elena turned him down with the words, "Thank you, I'm married."
So I think it's understandable why he didn't cling to life. What kind of life is it where a partner rejects you, humiliates you in your femininity, sexually neglects you, a new life, and no other partner is an option? She waited until their child was grown and then she left. Quietly, without a word.
Elena was a woman of healthy sexuality. As far as I know, everything was fine in bed at first. Then came the failures. Rejection is hard for men, too. a thousand times harder for a woman. Women at risk of cervical cancer are those who are regularly rejected. It is also a rejection if a man does not initiate, because traditionally it is the man's job. This lack of approach is even resented by women who like to take the lead in bed. This is the way women are coded, the way our foremothers and their female descendants have been conditioned for generations: if the man does not initiate, the woman is not desirable, she is not a woman. This is 100 times more true if the woman initiates and is rejected. This can lead not only to cervical cancer, but also to any female disease and depression.
The other cases were similar, except that in one case the wife was still beautiful after giving birth. There there was no evidence that the husband was having an affair. The sexual neglect had its own destructive effect. Here the lady sought spiritual help, so she is in recovery. In another case, the older lady has recovered: again, the neglect (and the resulting damage to her femininity) is certain, the cheating is not clear.
Sexual neglect is also a form of abuse
You can abuse not only with words and beatings: neglect is also a form of abuse.
Sexual neglect is a particularly serious and life-threatening type of abuse. Sexual desire is a natural physical desire in humans. Therefore, not fulfilling it can cause negative changes in the body on a physical level. Logical.
I emphasise that this applies to people in long-term relationships who have someone to be with, but can't. This causes frustration. It's as if the carrot is passed in front of you every day and you never get it! It can be very annoying.
I would also stress that women are the most vulnerable in terms of sexual frustration.
1. If a husband does not get sex from his wife, he is cheating on her. The same solution is less socially acceptable to women.
2. In the best case, the unsatisfied man masturbates - again, not an option for many women: not everyone likes/wants to masturbate.
3. porn is still the "solution" for men: again, not an option for women, as porn is generally not enjoyable for female viewers.
I would also stress that I have not done any research, and I certainly cannot say that sexual neglect is the cause of all women with cervical cancer. But if you know yourself or someone you know, it's already worth posting this information. Thanks to Elena. She gave her life for a misconception. Let this be a warning to all men and women!
Take care of yourself, don't neglect your femininity!
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