Hypoactive sexual desire disorder - HSD
Hypoactive sexual desire is a disorder characterised by a lack of interest in sex and consequently a rare sexual life. The person feels little desire, but in many cases, if the person does engage in sexual intercourse, he or she functions normally, enjoys the intercourse, or at least does not get bored with it. However, in many cases, the lack of interest prevents orgasm from being achieved. The prevalence of hypoactive sexual desire disorder in men is 1-15%,. This is increasing in recent times, the most likely reason being that with the changing role of women, it is now appropriate for women to enjoy sex, and so the male secret of HSD is revealed.
Reasons
Like any sexual disorder, hypoactive sexual desire can have many causes.
It can be caused by anxiety, fear of pleasure, fear of failure, fear of losing control of sexual urges, fear of being close to a partner, fear of vulnerability, fear of getting pregnant.
It can be caused by depression, childhood rape, inadequate communication with a partner, or a monotonous sexual experience. It can be caused by any kind of anxiety or anger. It can be caused by a strict religious upbringing, resulting in guilt, fear of losing self-control, self-control. It may be caused by other sexual dysfunction or mental disorder. Conflict, stress, relationship difficulties, work problems, financial or emotional vulnerability may also be at the root.
Also, different levels of sexual inexperience, personal space, relational intimacy, relational closeness in the relationship. Difficulty in reconciling different roles (e.g. the man may not be able to reconcile the role of the woman he wants to be with the role of the mother who is the mother of his wife). There may also be physical causes, such as endocrinological or neurological disorders, drug addiction, alcohol addiction, the effects of drugs, side effects, environmental damage, etc.
Male orgasm disorder (inhibited male orgasm, inhibited ejaculation, retarded ejaculation, insufficient ejaculation, delayed ejaculation)
During sexual intercourse, the man is unable to achieve, or fails to achieve in time, orgasm and ejaculation are inhibited and delayed, even with normal sexual arousal and stimulation. Inhibited ejaculation does not mean that the man is unable to ejaculate at night or during masturbation.
In men, the time needed to reach orgasm usually increases with age.
Premature ejaculation ( premature ejaculation, premature orgasm, ejaculatio praecox)
Premature ejaculation is when a man cannot control the time of ejaculation properly, despite his intentions, and ejaculation occurs before or shortly after penetration, before the partner is satisfied. An ejaculation of semen within a short time (1-2 minutes) is considered abnormal. In no case is it abnormal if ejaculation occurs more than 3 minutes after insertion.
Potency disorder (erectile dysfunction, erectile dysfunction, erectile dysfunction, (inability to get an erection, inhibited sexual arousal, impotence)
Older name, no longer used: impotence
In the case of erectile dysfunction, the penis is not able to reach a level of rigidity that allows penetration. Erectile dysfunction does not only mean that there is no erection. We talk about such a problem when the erection required for sexual intercourse either does not occur, is not of a sufficient degree or does not last long enough, and this condition persists for at least 3 months or recurs. It is rare for a man never to experience erectile dysfunction in his lifetime. Sexual desire in men is often reduced in the presence of erectile dysfunction, but libido may still be maintained. Regardless of the change in sexual desire, men with erectile dysfunction have difficulty engaging in sexual intercourse because either their penis is not stiff enough, or it is not long enough or does not rise high enough for penetration, or their erection does not last long.
Most people have the misconception that men can have sex with almost anyone, and can have unemotional sex at any time.For many men, when they have "someone to make love to, something to do and somewhere to go", they experience a lack of desire. In this case, the man has an erection, so he is not impotent, he just has no desire or urge to have sex.
Dyspareunia (painful intercourse)
Painful sexual intercourse (Greek medical term dyspareunia - pareunos: to lie with someone) is one of the, perhaps most common, manifestations of sexual dysfunction. It is a disorder that occurs in both men and women. The diagnosis of dyspareunia is used when intercourse causes pain. Pain during intercourse can be primary and secondary, total and positional. Primary pain is defined as pain during intercourse every time from the beginning of sexual intercourse. Secondary pain is pain that occurs after a shorter or longer period of uninterrupted intercourse.
Male sexual problem: lack of desire (if temporary)
Sexual desire disorder develops after a man has had a normal sex life for some time. It can be caused by viral illness, hormonal imbalance, kidney disease, but the real problem is usually caused by the partner, stress, bad circumstances, an alcoholic or other addictive lifestyle, or family problems.
The decrease in male desire, incredible as it may seem, is most often caused by the reaction of the female partner to the behaviour. Everyone should know that men are the most vulnerable in their sexuality. If he is put down in his masculine performance, it affects his whole life, his performance at all times. After all, men measure everything through performance, The man who can perform, who stands his ground, is the man - or so they think. Willingly or unwillingly, they constantly compare themselves with others. It's easy to get caught in a vicious circle if you feel you don't live up to expectations.
The vicious circle is completed when the man tries hard to make amends, but the obsessive pursuit of achievement is almost certain to fail. There are other ways to quench male desire: the depressive woman with her lack of sexual appetite, the overly passive woman with her routine, the punitive type with her tendency to make sex a punishing and rewarding means of making it impossible for her male partner to approach her with desire.
The consequence of such unresolved situations is that the man suddenly realizes that he can feel desire for other women, and sooner or later he tries to see if his desire for another woman is real. And he realises that sex works with everyone but the criticising wife or girlfriend. If a man is very much in love with his partner, but is being belittled in sex, with each new attempt causing another failure, after a while he may come to give up sex altogether.
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