Premature ejaculation is the most insidious sexual disorder

Premature ejaculation is the most insidious, vile sexual disorder, because it does not present itself as a problem. It puts on a mask. It pretends to be positive. "Oh darling, I came so quickly because I want you so much! Because you're so sexy!" And the woman believes it, and in many cases the man believes it. (But not always.)

In summary: The man does not know that premature ejaculation is a sexual problem.

Then, when the premature ejaculation has been going on for years, decades, at least the man becomes suspicious. If he's single, he tries to have more casual relationships so as not to get busted. But it is also possible that he may not be in a long-term relationship because she is sexually unaware and does not realise that she is actually dealing with a sexual disorder. And it's not all about being so desirable and sexy. People are capable of lying to themselves for years, decades, so it's easy to imagine that the man involved is also lying to himself. Even though he feels that something is wrong, that this is not normal, he brushes it all off with the fact that at least he has managed to get to the top quickly. It's not such a bad thing. And he'll satisfy his wife or girlfriend, one way or another, with his hands and mouth - if he decides to satisfy her. Or not satisfy him at all.

In summary: the man suspects that premature ejaculation is a sexual problem, but he covers it up.

This is one version.

The other version is the one I often encounter, where the man knows full well that it is not okay to ejaculate early. But it is his wife who is holding him back from finally getting this problem solved. It's the wife who says, it's perfect for me, it's just fine, you don't have to change it. For me, that's enough time. It's good if you then satisfy me with your hands or your mouth. But if not, that's okay too. It's not about that, it's about the cuddling etc. etc. When she says things like that, she actually has a sexual problem. Namely, among other things, that he does not like to be together. He does not like intercourse. She's very comfortable with the fact that she's with a man with a fast burner. And she wants to keep it that way. So you can go on for years, decades, without ever finding out that she actually has a very serious sexual problem.

In summary: the man knows that premature ejaculation is a sexual problem, but the woman doesn't want to change it.

Let's look at what might be behind this. He doesn't like penetration because it's, let's say, painful for him. So this is painful intercourse, vaginismus syndrome. She'll put up with it for the minute or two until he comes, but otherwise she doesn't want it in the middle of her back. That's not normal either. It's not normal either if she can't get wet, but of course, if she can't because she's not sufficiently aroused, then that's the man's responsibility. It is the woman's responsibility to explore her own erogenous zones. If she has not been able to do this in her life, it is the partner who can play a significant role, if he is motivated enough, if he is persistent enough and skilful enough. So there is a low sex drive on the part of the woman, for example. So she doesn't want to have intercourse. And then there may be a feeling of pain in the background, there may be a problem of wetting. And all of this may be the result of trauma, sexual abuse, violence from the past. Or she's been humiliated at some point in her womanhood. Or nothing like that, just not being able to enjoy intercourse freely. She's not able to give herself to it. Too inhibited, too anxious. She may see sex as something degrading, disgusting. This may be due to a religious upbringing. But it doesn't have to be religious, it can be an overly moralistic, prudish upbringing. She may have heard her mother say that all men are whoremongers. Her father might have forbidden her to have boys. So there could be a thousand reasons why a woman might not want sex as an adult. And she doesn't enjoy it. And it could be an inability to orgasm. So even though she has the sex drive, even though she can enjoy it, she's unable to climax. This is not surprising with premature ejaculation, because it's very rare for a woman to come in a minute or two. Although there is a precedent for it. But the fact that the woman's partner always comes so quickly means that it's not obvious that the woman can't have an orgasm, or even that she can't have one. So her problem is hidden. It could also be that the woman can't accept her own body, can't accept her own appearance, her own looks. Especially in bed in certain positions. And that's why she doesn't enjoy sex.

In summary: premature ejaculation is perpetuated by a woman's sexual problem that she does not face. Instead of seeking a solution, she does not want the man's premature ejaculation to be resolved.

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