35-year-old porn-addicted man who, despite having a satisfying sex life, also visited prostitutes

2020-01-10

I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. Unfortunately, it has been overshadowed by porn addiction and its baggage - which in my case involves cheating with prostitutes and lying. This came to light 1.5 years ago, and then my partner took me to Martina for a sexology consultation, which I didn't have the stomach for. At first I absolutely did not take the problem seriously, I felt too comfortable in that situation and could not see the wood for the trees. It was only when I was on the brink and nothing was working that I thought that I was in real trouble and that I was not going to find a way out of this addiction on my own. Fortunately for me, Martina Somorjai is a very kind and accepting sexologist and I was given a second chance. I am now trying to fight back for the second time, this time with a different attitude. Now I have been resisting the temptation of porn for several months. It's a long and slow process of recovery, but funnily enough the results are tangible here too. My relationship has suffered a lot through it all, many times now old grievances come up and will still come up many times. But there is a way out with Martina's help. I'm lucky that my partner has stuck by me and she gives me extra support. Maybe soon we will get to the point of planning a family. So far that has not been possible because of my addiction. I can tell everyone to be careful, because it can happen to anyone that they become an addict, but few people realise it and it can get deep very quickly. Seek real experiences in the real world rather than virtual ones. 

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