Expert interviews with sex therapist Martina Somorjai 4. Taste differences, experimentation
Experimentation? Obligation? Curiosity? These can all come up when things start to go flat in the bedroom.
Experimentation? Obligation? Curiosity? These can all come up when things start to go flat in the bedroom.
Infidelity is a factor in a large proportion of divorces. You can sense when the other person is cheating, but are there any legitimate means to prove it?
Is sex a sin? Is sex before marriage a sin? Christian sexologist Martina Somorjai answers these fascinating questions.
Are you afraid of women too? Disillusioned with women?Don't trust women? Or do you just not get along with any women?
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BlogI am increasingly being asked by the media to give expert interviews on sex - relationship issues. I will publish some of them. Today's topic is fat men in bed. Fanny Magazine article. Fat man in bed or fat man with a bombshell? Think about how many times we see seriously obese men next to beautiful, visibly giving women. And how often do we see it the other way round? I wonder why
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BlogMany people wonder what a sex therapist, sex psychologist, sex therapist, sexologist, sex therapist, sexologist thinks about solving sexual problems.
If a person can't masturbate without watching porn, they are a porn addict.
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BlogI have found the cause of adrenaline addiction
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BlogMartina Somorjai's opinions summarised in my podcast
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BlogA fizikai könyv elfogyott, de ne keseredj el. E-book formátumban is meg tudod rendelni. Íme: https://sf.legyenjobbaszex.hu/t/r/igy-kezeld-a-pornofuggoseget-e-konyv Ha mégis ragaszkodsz a nyomtatott könyvhöz, küldj egy emailt, amibe elég annyit írni: könyv várólista: rendeles@legyenjobbaszex.hu Így elsők között értesítelek, amint újra elérhető lesz a könyv. Köszönöm, Somorjai Martina
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OtherIocasté syndrome: when a mother falls in love with her son I am increasingly being asked by the media to give expert interviews to sex therapists on sexual - relationship issues. I will publish some of them. This interview was facilitated by me In this common relationship-family tragedy, everyone loses. The man in love who is ignored by his wife after the birth of their son loses. The wife loses when her husband falls in love with her son. I will publish some of them. This interview was facilitated by me In this common relationship-family tragedy, everyone loses. The man in love who is ignored by his wife after the birth of their son loses. The wife loses when her husband
Potency Programme for a long-lasting erection. Erectile dysfunction early ejaculation treatment, permanent solution.
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OtherIn the first part of my blog "Premature ejaculation is the most insidious sexual disorder", I did not list all the possible causes of premature ejaculation. Causes of premature ejaculation The basic premise: Women's attitudes encourage men to ejaculate prematurely. Sometimes they put it into words: "It's okay if you come early" or "Is there much left?". Sometimes they do not communicate
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BlogThe idea for my expert interview on misdemeanour was given by the hired ghosts. This new trend was the subject of a two-page expert interview with me by Fanny - my magazine. Miscarriage, infidelity, cheating - it is a painful experience to be on the receiving end. There are a lot of busy guys on the dating sites. They ask the woman they've chosen out on a date, where instead of a potential trophy, their wife is waiting
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Blogpremature ejaculation is the most insidious sexual disorder because it is actually erectile dysfunction
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BlogFrom boy - to Man tread the latest article from my Masculine Potency Program. Many people complain that men have disappeared. Advice from a Sexologist
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BlogSoon I will finish the 30-day tutorial, the PoP Potency Program, which I have created for a long-lasting erection. So that you too can achieve and maintain true potency without drugs and without having to see me, a sex therapist. You can buy it here: https://sf.legyenjobbaszex.hu/t/r/potencia-program-pop Many people are put off when they hear when they check in that I have a long waiting list. So they go to another sexologist or sex therapist, sex psychologist, or worse
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BlogTo have good sex you need emotional intelligence, so I always develop the EQ of my sex therapists. However, I had a problem with not having a role model for a long time: someone to emulate. And imitation is one of the fastest ways to learn. At best, I recommended characters from films: for men, for example, 'When a man really loves'. However, this is only
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BlogPermanent erection without medication? Not a dream anymore! Martina Somorjai's Sexologist Potency Program is coming! Get it here: https://sf.legyenjobbaszex.hu/t/r/potencia-program-pop Sign up soon, send me an email, because it won't always be available!
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BlogI watch the reality show Marry the Farmer, and as a sexual-relationship counsellor, I have my own opinions about it. It is a depressing, yet authentic portrayal of today's reality. Take Jasmine, one of the winning women. Analyzing what helped her to win, I see everything but pure fair play. Much like in life. How did the most modest-looking of the contestants
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BlogI was interviewed by Meglepetés magazine as a two-page expert on the link between rape and porn. The subject is serious and my ideas are shocking. For the first time, what my clients and readers have been hearing from me for 5 years is being put in the press: the concept of consensual rape. l.: Trauma My 2-page expert interview covered the following topics.
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BlogAt the Psychotherapy conference, this presentation was a real shock: the psychologists and students present said that my method, which was too dynamic, too intense and relatively quick to achieve results, was not a way to treat men suffering from porn addiction and erectile dysfunction. Watch my video where I present 2 concrete cases with real problems and real, effective results demonstrating the
Miközben egyre többen hiszik, hogy a Covid vírus végezhet az emberiséggel, meggyőződésem, hogy a pornófüggőség is megteheti ezt a „szolgálatot”. Ezt bővebben kifejti az alábbi újságcikk, melyért hálás köszönet az újságírónak, Kozma Ritának! https://www.delmagyar.hu/helyi-eletstilus/2020/09/a-pornofuggoseg-vegezhet-az-emberiseggel-i-resz
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BlogIs porn addiction really a problem? Is it always bad to watch porn? Does everyone really need to give up porn?
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BlogI made a video just for men. Don't wait for a sexologist. Get your (sex) life in order without a psychologist. Only watch it if you are the male gender. I also have videos for women only:
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BlogThis video is for women only. Only watch it if you are of the female gender. If you have been suffering from cervical cancer, ovarian cancer, breast cancer for years, it is time to deal with the psychological background of it. And if you're predisposed, prevent it. Watch this video to find out how. If you're the opposite sex, don't despair: there's a video for you too. Click
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Blog"I don't need a sexologist/therapist, I'm normal!" - I often hear from new people when they find out what I do. Let's look at the people who NEVER come to a sexologist:
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BlogThe first official book review of my work on the treatment of porn addiction by Judit Erberling has been published. The reviewer writes on Watchaholics.hu that "a bigger slice speaks directly to porn addicts, offering coping methods. In fact, this section may not be specifically for adult film addicts, but also for other addicts, such as mobile phone addicts." This is exactly right.
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BlogMy hair was out of control, my necklace was out of place, no makeup, a clumsy pipeline in the background...so what? Does everything have to be perfect? Imperfection is sexy! A shocking number of people are under the misconception that the secret to sex is a perfect body. While in my sexology consultations, bimbos complain that their partners do not desire them. Our natural state is imperfection.
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What happens in a sexologist's office? What is the sex life of others like? What are their sexual problems and how can they be solved? Now you can get an insight into these tabooed and exciting secrets! Today I've published a book which reveals whether there is a solution to porn addiction, impotence, lack of libido, early and late ejaculation, lack of orgasms, and estranged relationships. A sex book that seems to be all about porn addiction
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BlogMy Black Sheep Theory has been published, which will put right the lives of many people condemned by others. If you feel like you have been branded a Black Sheep in your family, always blamed, blamed by your immediate environment, school or workplace, condemned by society as abnormal or labelled as such, plagued by overwhelming guilt, remorse, and unjust in life, order the Black Sheep
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BlogSexual neglect is the psychological cause of cervical cancer Chronicle of a senseless death Two years ago, I realised that the psychological cause of cervical cancer is a sexless relationship, or more precisely, the psychological cause of the disease is sexual neglect. I have noticed this disease in women who are in a long-term relationship, but their husband/partner does not approach them on a long-term basis. And if the woman initiates physical contact,
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BlogFrom 20-25 June 2018, I gave lectures and workshops at the Everness Festival in Lower Ores. "How to seduce me?" "Sex without taboos". "The effects of porn". "Relationship Strengthening". Some were exclusively for women, some for men, and I also thought about couples. The biggest success was definitely the "No taboos - Live a liberated sex life" workshop for both sexes. One of its secrets is
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BlogWhy is it so difficult to make a difference? Why can't I find a party? - more and more singles are asking the question, to no avail. Finding a partner is a recurring theme in many magazines, but somehow we can't get ahead, despite all the dating tips. Why is it so hard to find a partner? It would be easy to think that many people don't find a partner because they haven't met one
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BlogContact me if you would like me to give a presentation on my research! In 2016, I conducted sex research online using an anonymous questionnaire, supplemented by in-depth personal interviews. I was doing research on something that no one had ever done before: I was looking at the attitudes towards sex of a sexually minority group of Christians who take their religion seriously and practice it on a daily basis. Many predicted that the
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BlogIf you missed my lecture and would like to receive an invitation to my private webinar, live streamed lecture, click here: what would you like to hear about? Make a suggestion here! Since the beginning of my career, many people have asked me to give a presentation to a wider audience. The time has come: together with my male colleague Ádám Németh, also a sexologist, we will hold our first interactive discussion. Topics Topics for the first presentation
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BlogDo you have sex over 60? It is a common misconception that people can't and don't want to have sex when they are older, so "sex in old age" is a contradiction in terms. This is just one of many misconceptions about sexuality, which I'm starting a series on here on my blog. What would you like to read about? Make a suggestion here! In "Which couple should I choose?"
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BlogThis time, partial impotence was the subject of my Wikipedia article. What would you like to read about? Make a suggestion here! This is what Wikipedia says about erectile dysfunction: Partial impotence Partial impotence is a disorder of male sexual behaviour in which erectile dysfunction is not permanent but sexual performance is still insufficient. It is a very insidious problem, which is caused by
Consultation of the porn addicted individual There are more and more porn addicted men in Hungary. Surprisingly, there is no official definition, description or recommended treatment for pornography addiction, a widely known addiction. So I wrote an article about it for Wikipedia. I quote: Porn addiction is an addiction or compulsive disorder in which the individual experiences intense anxiety and tension when
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BlogSerious misconceptions about erectile dysfunction, impotence Erectile dysfunction, impotence, insufficient erection If you are interested in a 30-day challenge for potency, write to: info at: info at bejobbaszex pont hu. I am worried about men. There are so many misconceptions on the internet about this! If you fall victim to them, you not only don't solve the problem, but you create extra problems
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Sexual problemsPremature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem that I can treat easily and effectively! 3 sessions is enough, but I have had clients who have had a big change with just 1. If there is a more serious psychological blockage behind the symptom, the consultation will take longer. It may happen that during sexual intercourse the man ejaculates earlier than she does,
Save your marriage, your relationship. Choose Couples Counselling instead of divorce. Stoke the fire in your loved one instead of a lover. You'll see, you'll get to know each other in a new way. You will become more balanced, your everyday life will become more joyful and interesting. Your relationship will become stronger and more stable. Their love for each other deepens. Estrangement is surprisingly easy to handle. I have a quick, effective way to do this. Couples should come to me specifically if they are having sex
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Sexual problemsNapjaink egyik legsúlyosabb problémája a pornófüggőség.Felnőttfilmek nézegetése bizonyos mértékkel jól hathat a nemi életre. Sokan ebből tanulnak technikákat, innen merítenek ötleteket, szingliként ezt nézve maszturbálnak és vezetik le a felgyülemlett szexuális feszültséget. Párkapcsolatban is jó hatással lehet, ha például együtt nézik meg a filmet, ami fergeteges szeretkezésbe torkollik. Ez így rendben is van. A kulcsszó
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Sexual problemsLack of orgasm, inability to orgasm (anorgasmia) The woman does not reach a state of satisfaction. Lack of orgasm can be caused by lack of sex drive, repression of sex drive or impracticality. Psychological factors include guilt, quarrelling, worrying, possible past sexual trauma or rape. For more information on the latter, please read more about "Inability to orgasm is often caused by trauma
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Sexual problemsIt is only in recent decades that we refer to this disorder as female libido deficiency. In traditional medical and popular thinking, sexual dysfunction in women was called frigidity (coldness of the sexes). Modern sexology and sex therapy find the term frigidity imprecise, unintelligible and condemnatory. Instead, it has come to be understood as a disorder of sexual desire, need, arousal and satisfaction. Causes of the development of sexual dysfunction Biological causes:
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Sexual problemsMany are involved in the attraction to perversions, paraphilias, extreme things or situations, extremes. The most common is BDSM, which is an umbrella term for "bondage-discipline, dominance-abjection and sadism-masochism". In practice, fetishism has also been included. As long as it's pleasurable and mutually satisfying for both parties, there's no problem with it per se. BDSM is a good spice to spice up a normal sex life.
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Sexual problemsLate ejaculation means that the man cannot come or has difficulty coming. Contrary to the literature, I have found that ejaculation that occurs slowly or not at all is common. The man cannot ejaculate or ejaculates only after 1.5-2 hours. Late ejaculation, difficult ejaculation is not a problem, in fact it is quite pleasant if the parties are
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Sexual problemsAz internetes ismerkedések világában gyakori a sikertelen randevúzgatás, a kudarcélmény. Bár szexológus vagyok, nem randiguru, mégis sok esetben tudtam segíteni sikeretlenül ismerkedő fiataloknak. Ilyenkor a szokásos konzultáció mellett megnézem a levelezést, a kiválasztott hölgyek/urak fényképét, és elemzem, mi vezethetett a kudarchoz. Mint randiguru, jellemzően mindössze egyetlen konzultáció alatt el tudok magyarázni mindent, ami elegendő a
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Sexual problemsAsexuality: not a sexual disorder, but a total or partial lack of sexual attraction. A lot of asexual people feel attraction (romantic, platonic, aesthetic or sensual), but have no inner urge to experience the attraction sexually with someone. They feel and experience a desire to get to know others, to be close to others. Most are physically capable of orgasm and masturbate regularly, although occasionally
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Sexual problemsMany Christian believers ask the following questions: Christianity and premarital sex: is it compatible? Can a Christian/Christian enjoy sex? Why is it that I am married, yet I cannot get unstuck in bed? How long should I keep my virginity? Do I really need to get married and have children? Is cohabitation, wild marriage the gates of hell? Is sex only for procreation? Contraception: is it free? Masturbation before marriage,
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Sexual problemsSex education is needed more than we think, and not just for young people. Many people do not know what gives their partner pleasure. They are not well versed in how the human body works in a sexual sense. It is particularly common in Christian couples who have waited until marriage to follow religious precepts. The prohibition of books, writings and films with sexual content and the taboo of sexual activity in the family and community
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Sexual problemsGetting pregnant, having a baby, conceiving are all closely linked to sexuality. But in my experience, the couples concerned do not want to take this into account. It is not certain that a couple who avoid sexual intercourse will have a child. Even if they resort to artificial insemination, they will not succeed. There are couples who have sex with
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Sexual problemsExcessive, senseless sexual inhibition can stem from our personality, our psychological make-up, our introversion. More important is our parental upbringing and patterns, and what we learn from our immediate cultural environment, our peers. Other reasons include previous relationship disappointment, failure, unsuccessful dating. Youthful taunts, bullying or humiliation, whether from one's own or the opposite sex, can also make matters worse.
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Sexual problemsHypoactive sexual desire disorder - HSD Hypoactive sexual desire disorder is characterised by a lack of interest in sex and consequently a rare sexual life. The person feels little desire, but in many cases, if the person does engage in sexual intercourse, they function normally, enjoy the intercourse, or at least do not get bored with it. However, in many cases
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Sexual problemsA penis less than 5 cm in length is called a micropenis. This size usually motivates the wearers to avoid traditional sex life, so they will have size inhibitions. Intimate sizes larger than this can also cause self-doubt: below 18 cm, most Hungarian men question themselves and their potential performance in bed. The Latin word for penis is "penis", and unresolved psychological problems are described in the Latin word for penis.
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Sexual problemsDisgust can be not only with food, but also with sex. There are many people who find sex both desirable and disgusting. They generally consider sex to be an animal instinct. The reasons for this may be upbringing, religion, aversion to bodily fluids, trauma, not accepting the other, rejection of oneself, etc.
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Sexual problemsAmbivalent feelings: e.g. wanting but hating the opposite sex or wanting but fearing the opposite sex Ambivalent, i.e. conflicting feelings about sexuality. Conflicts, mixed emotions, contradictions and fears, alternation of desire and disgust. Do you want sex but feel disgusted afterwards?
Traumák a múltból, amik megakadályozzák a normális kapcsolat kialakítását, fenntartását, és vaginizmust ill. más problémákat okozhatnak Trauma: erős megrázkódtatással járó élmény. Szexuális jellegű traumák: Nemi erőszak illetve szexuális molesztálás: Akár befejezett, akár félbehagyott a cselekmény, komoly zavarokat okoz a szexuális életben. A feldolgozatlan, kezeletlen nemi erőszak/molesztálás a következőket okozhatja:
About physical mismatch This kind of internal barrier appears long before a relationship is formed, based on various traditional ideas and prejudices. It is usually linked to perceived (or real) minor or major physical flaws that make sexual relations difficult or impossible. They are mainly based on body size, deviations from the average. Basic prejudice,
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Sexual problemsExploring and resolving the psychological background of women's illnesses: fibroids, polyps, cysts, polycystic ovaries, uterine cystitis, recurrent vaginal infections, fungal vaginal discharge, urethritis I often use counselling for this. I will write about this soon. Until then, please be patient - or call me:-)
I'll write about it soon: it's one of my most popular consultations, I invented the method.
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Sexual problemsMany people today no longer accept their own gender role. In the last decades, women do not want to behave as women, they see their femininity as a burden, and men do not take on the responsibilities that come with being a man. Of course, a masculine woman-feminine man constellation can also work. The confusion arises when one of the parties is already in a position
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Sexual problemsThere are many reasons why someone may not be wanted by their partner. Not everyone can afford to indulge in physical pleasure. The question is, what lies behind such abstinence?
Many people are involved in the attraction to (what used to be known as) perversions, paraphilias, extreme things or situations, extremity. This is one of the least researched, unappreciated segments of sexual psychology. Most of the time, professionals do not have any serious knowledge about it either. Therefore, many sex seekers acquire practical knowledge and experience, i.e. they try out a paraphilia, after which they may even become addicted. Some paraphilias are harmless (fetishism, transvestism),
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Sexual problemsEmailes terápia előnyei Az online támogatás új dimenziói Az emailes terápia, amelyet gyakran online támogatásnak is neveznek, egyre népszerűbb és elterjedtebb módszer a mentális egészség kezelésére. Ahogy a digitális kapcsolatok és az internetes kommunikáció mindennapjaink részeivé válnak, úgy nő az igény az újfajta terápiás megközelítések iránt is. Az emailes terápia számos előnnyel jár, amelyek közül
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Sexual problemsTransgender, TS Gender role confusion is a characteristic of those who feel they are a different gender to the body they were born into. Please contact me if you are affected by any of the following and would like to accept yourself: feeling a woman as a man - TS woman feeling a man as a woman - TS man A transsexual is a person whose brain (conscious) gender is opposite to their biological (birth) gender
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Sexual problemsIt is mainly men who complain that their orgasms are not strong enough. They come, but they don't feel any particular pleasure. It used to be more intense or, on the contrary, it was never particularly intense. Western medicine cannot help with this, but Eastern medicine can. I have found the solution, I will be happy to share it with you!
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Sexual problemsIn short, it can also be an addiction. I will write more about this soon.
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Sexual problemsI wrote an article on late ejaculation for Wikipedia. You can read a lot about the lack of female orgasms, but hardly anything about male. Yet the phenomenon exists, and is not at all as rare as the relevant offline literature (i.e. books) claims. Since I could not find any entry on this topic even in the encyclopaedia itself, I have filled the gap. I quote here: Late ejaculation is the
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